My paternal grandmother, who died long before I was born, was called Henora. I knew that her maiden name was MacDonald but I didn't know what her christian name was before I found it on a site that my brother in law David put together.
Shame on me.
I wait patiently, with no urgency. I have been granted all the time there is. I do not try to make anything of what I see. I hold no expectation or assumption that I know anything at all.